There are tons of things that my mother never told me.
If I had been filled in, a) I wouldn’t have believed her or, b) I would have been in denial and turned a deaf ear.
You tend to think that you are infallible as a youth and don’t pay proper attention to the advice you are offered.
“Just you wait.”
“Oh, I hear you now, mom.”
Besides, certain feelings you have to experience to understand, and all the words in the world could never explain them.
As you get older you fight a harder battle to keep your body weight down. The two- mile walk, or bicycle ride, turns into a four miler for the same results… if you are lucky.
Some grown people don’t work on the job, or play well with others in social situations, any differently than when they were little kids demanding their own way.
Raising a family and working is exhausting. Your mind is in high gear with little downtime. Weeks blend together and the outside windows don’t get washed.
You have to go through pregnancy, and only then, will you see that your physical body changes- that rear end lowers ever so politely.
Time rushes by faster each year you live life.
You will lose close friends at an early age. Death is inevitable and there are many tears to be shed.
Something that was a big deal when you were a teenager - like being the shortest girl in your class - is not so important anymore.
A love relationship ends and shakes you to the core until you are able to move forward.
Your closest adult friends might include people older than your parents.
It is one of those most difficult life events when you loose a younger sibling and you grapple to get your feet moving forward. You hurt so much.
Your parents will become like children as you take on the role of caregiver.
You would live in so many different places before calling one a permanent home.
Toenails and fingernails become brittle and tough to keep manicured as you age.
You will quote your mother more and more until one day recognizing that you have become her.
A house never stays clean.
No one can explain to you the euphoric feeling that comes over you when you birth a child.
Surviving the loss of a job, and the subsequent searching for a new one, is tough. You feel vulnerable.
People will listen for your wisdom and respect your opinions.
Your kids’ antics will clue you into how your own parents must have felt dealing with your shenanigans.
Genetics plays a bigger role than you think.
Retirement is so much fun. No further explanation required.
Hobbies might turn into your career, or a second one.
Your preschoolers start their love life early.
Returning back to your hometown is never the same once you’ve gone away. Those childhood memories are best kept tucked away.
Your heart breaks when one of your adult children is suffering or in difficulty. Giving emotional support and sharing advice is all they need, though.
Buying a new car, furnace or putting on a roof is expensive and that they don’t last that many years either.
Living at a distance from your family is lonely at times. Living close, on the other hand, can have its ups and downs, too.
Hanging out with a preschooler is an education in itself in unconditional love and friendship.
Nobody ever tells you that a multitude of feelings often occur all at the same time, and everything is fine.
Talking to older relatives before they pass on gives you insight into your ancestry.
As a young parent you spend your week between the pediatrician’s office and the grocery store, and sometimes those are your only outings into the adult world.
You never get ahead of bills and taxes.
Certain things you gracefully phase out with age like leggings and wilderness camping.
You can do life at 50 and not be crumbling to pieces.
Mattresses wear thin as do complicated people.
Your in-laws will want you to spend every holiday with them.
The stock of sympathy cards goes up while your wedding invites go down in relation to your age.
Boyfriends, or girlfriends, come and go, but true friends last forever.
When your children make you handmade cards and gifts for Mother’s Day, those are cherished forever.
Car seats are lifesavers.
Little kids get sick a lot, and in a flash, they recover. In the meantime, you hang on to a cold for days.
Eating every morsel on your plate doesn’t have anything to do with starving children in Africa.
You repeat yourself the older you get.
Finding your first gray hair and wrinkle happens when you are least expecting them.
Your mind has brain freezes at the worst possible moments.
Someone you thought was your second cousin is only a friend of the family. Somehow the person got blended in and you never knew the difference.
You would be running in a 5k as a senior participant.
Cherishing family heirlooms is as valuable as decluttering your house of extra stuff.
Getting your feet wet is not going to give you a cold.
Picking up the phone to talk with your mom or dad is a habit hard to break after they pass away.
Being intelligent, powerful, maternal, and sexual- all these qualities go together- is what you are all about.